It starts making sense

A few weeks ago, I received an IM from my ex. I didn't post anything about it, but it basically stated that he was going to stop paying the mortgage until I signed over the house. I figured it was just him getting desperate. Something in the back of my mind however, was telling me that something triggered it. The only thing I could think of was possibly his current bf had left him, or gotten kicked out, etc., and was no longer supplementing the payments with "rent".

I got this message today on a website of which I am a member. I've x'ed out the bf's name, since he now joins me in the elite club of having been f*cked over by my ex.

"i am [XXXX]. Jim's now x bf after he cheated on me. if you would like to talk sometime let me know."

If your life has a soundtrack you should now be hearing the Hallelujah chorus.

Queue the music.

I'll post as soon as I talk to the now kindred soul.